The Lord sets the prisoners free; the Lord opens the eyes of the blind. The Lord lifts up those who are bowed down; the Lord loves the righteous. Psalm 146:8
Know anyone locked away in a prison of their choosing?
Sometimes they know it. Other times they do not.
Prisons are erected using anything really.
Living from within yourself. Addictions. Unconfessed sin.
Mounting fear or anxiety, crippling your next move.
Longings of your heart never answered.
Holding too tightly to past pain, letting it define you.
Controlling everything and everyone because you know best.
Pushing others away so they don’t know the real you.
Prison walls can be short or tall, depending upon the length of your stay.
Sometimes a door will crack open, but often it’s shoved shut again.
Why? Prisons are safer than the real world.
Living for yourself is much easier than giving of yourself to others.
Keeping your pain close is comforting because forgiveness is too painful.
But prisons are lonely. Sad. And time only increases both.
The world offers keys like medication, counseling, and permission to wallow.
While these keys can work for a while, there is only One who can unlock complete freedom.
Only One who holds your final key.
And He is waiting on the other side of your prison door: God.
He patiently waits for you to decide you are ready. That you want freedom. He gives you that choice.
But once you choose, God promises to rush in with His love. It will seep through every crack in your heart.
God promises to rush in with His peace. It will calm your anxious heart, mind, soul, and body.
And God promises to rush in with His freedom from your prison.
God’s salvation from our sins is your first stop to freedom.
But God’s continued strength, wisdom and peace in your life will continue your journey to freedom as life unfolds.
Satan wants you to stay stuck or become stuck over and over with those same prison walls.
But God’s here to say no. He’s here to free you as many times as you need.
Allow God to move in your life. Allow God to take your brokenness, exchanging it for His life within you.
Step out of your prison, holding God’s hand. And never look back as you turn your face only to Him.
I trust in the Lord. I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love, because you have seen my affliction; you have known the distress of my soul, and you have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; you have set my feet in a broad place. Psalm 31:6-8
God has seen all of it. All of your hesitations. Your unbelief. Your drama.
God has seen all of your afflictions and distress deep down in your soul.
YET – He has chosen to keep you close.
He has chosen to keep you safe.
He has kept His commitment to you.
What afflictions are we talking about? What distress? The Psalm doesn’t say.
It could be literal physical sickness. It could be enemies surrounding the camp.
It could be death building within his heart. The affliction could be wrapped up in unbelief deep within.
But it doesn’t matter. The reasons don’t exist or matter because God chooses to keep his servant close.
He does not deliver him into the hand of the enemy even though afflictions and distress present themselves.
Not only does God keep him safe, he increases his safety by setting his feet in a secure place.
Making him even more secure.
This truth is yours, too.
Look around. God has protected you from so much.
You could have wandered away from Him, but here you sit.
He has protected your very soul from death!
The enemy is not victorious, but crushed.
God has won, is winning, and will win.
Thank Him for seeing your afflictions. The distress deep within.
And thank Him for keeping you close, raising you up out of it all.
How has God set your feet in a broad place, despite the afflictions of your heart?
Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:5
Read this aloud for yourself and your family:
Jesus, You are in full control. I am giving up myself as I invite You to take full reign. I am not capable of loving my family on my own. I need Your love to love them fully. I need Your peace to reign in my home. I need Your strength to do all You ask of me. I am laying down myself, as I seek Your will instead of my own.
I give you my family. Guard their hearts, minds, souls, and bodies. Protect them from all evil. Draw them close to Your heart, as You surround them with godly influences. Keep tapping on their hearts, as they bend their will to Yours and Yours alone.
I give you my future. My hopes and dreams. Open the doors you have for me, and shut firm the doors against Your will. Align my desires to Yours and Yours alone. I only want to dwell within Your will for me, Lord. Burn any dreams that are not from You. Give me answers to the areas I desperately seek You for. Let me see Your purpose for me, Lord. Walk with me, hand in hand, as I continue to seek You and You alone.
I give you my time. My talents. My everything. As You reveal your plan to me, allow me to see Your purpose. Allow me to see Your timing. Allow me to see the point of why You have allowed certain things. As I sit with You this day, remind me of Your love. Remind me of Your promises. Remind me of Your identity fashioned just for me.
I love You with all that I am. With all that I have. With all of me. Amen.
The steps of a man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way; though he fall, he shall not be cast headlong, for the Lord upholds his hands. Psalm 37: 23-24
Are your hands open or closed?
Ready or resistant to all God has for you?
Are you holding onto your life with close-fisted hands, unable to see past your today?
Often, when we close our hands to God, we place ourselves back in the driver’s seat.
Back in charge we remove God from the throne, resulting in our closed hands. Our grip closed too tightly on how we see our future. Our todays. And our past.
Why do we close our hands to God?
Fear of change. We tend to love routine, yes?
Fear of making the wrong choice. We all want to follow God’s plan, yes?
But closing our hands to God points ultimately to fear of completely trusting God.
We cannot see God sitting next to us on the couch, but He is.
We cannot see God moving in our life, but He is.
We cannot see God going before us, clearing the way, but He is.
God asks us to live with open hands to Him, allowing Him to move us closer to His loving arms.
When our hands are closed, gripping our own desires, we become closed to new things.
Closed to what God has for us.
Closed to the beautiful future God plans for us.
Look back at the faithfulness of God in your life.
Look at the many details He’s given, providing proof He sees and knows you.
As you fully trust God for your life, open your hands.
Release your grip tightened around your will alone.
And ready your hands as instead God pours His life into you.
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:30-31
Anyone in your life unloveable? Anyone fit that description?
Family? Acquaintances? Coworkers?
Children come to mind.
At times they seem unloveable when demanding things their way.
When irritated, they can spew forth ugliness, wishing you’d disappear.
Fine. I’ll go.
But that’s not biblical. Not God’s way.
He wants you to stay, loving the unloveable.
Can you even imagine a harder assignment?
Not me. Goes against my every fiber.
We usually love others because we get things in return.
Love, acceptance, respect, you get the idea.
But loving the unloveable? Yikes, that’s a whole new arena.
Yet that’s what God calls us to do. Literally. We are called to love others, no matter the response.
Jesus is our example. He loved us without reserve.
Without compromise. Without question.
And He loves us still when we revert back to our sinful selves, choosing our flesh too many times to count.
In other words, when we, ourselves, are unloveable, God still loves us.
If you’re willing, partner with God. His power through us can begin our attempt to love those who distain us.
God’s love. Not yours.
At the end of the day, God will be glorified if you love even when others don’t deserve it.
Even if they roll their eyes, talk back, or wish upon your disappearance.
Ask God to fill you with Himself each day as you wear His identity for you.
Only then, will you fulfill His greatest commission: To love your neighbor as yourself.
May we witness God through our daily human reactions. And may God Himself be manifest through our human attempts at love as we place others before ourselves.
And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you. Ezekiel 36:26-27
A Christmas Carol is a popular Christmas classic penned by Charles Dickens well over a hundred years ago.
One cannot comprehend the panic Scrooge felt as he walked with the Ghost of Christmas Future, unless one has made sinful choices such as Scrooge.
Because Scrooge was so selfish, he was blind to anything but himself.
Increasingly becoming aware of his sin only that night.
The consequences of his actions finally spoke louder to Scrooge than his fleshly habits.
Finding him in the graveyard, he sees the man’s name so ridiculed in death pages before: his own.
Falling on his face, he begs the Ghost of Christmas Future for a second chance.
Scrooge is agonized beyond anything he’s felt before.
He recognizes he is literally doomed.
Doomed forever and ever unless given a second chance.
A second chance as a changed man.
Begging the Ghost, he claims to have changed.
Begs and pleads with all his might.
He finally understands his truly bleak future written by his choices lived his entire adult life.
Stop and imagine yourself. What if that was you?
Do you have sections of your life ugly to God?
So ugly you deserve eternal damnation, too?
We all do. All of us deserve death.
But Jesus. His birth, death, and resurrection bring us hope as we place our trust in Him.
But we’re getting ahead of ourselves.
Let’s return to the question at hand: what ugly parts of your life do you still need to give to God?
Why haven’t you? What’s stopping you? Are you even bothered by them?
Scrooge wasn’t for most of his life. But when his eyes were opened, he was horrified.
Release your fleshly desires to God. Release your sinful ways, hurtful to so many.
Scrooge never cared about hurting others, but he did when he finally got it.
We don’t have the luxury of seeing future consequences of our sin.
But we do have the gift of God’s redemption. And second chances.
When Scrooge finally pried open his hands, he released his bitterness. His anger. His selfishness.
And in return he was given new eyes. And boy was he happy!
Releasing those burdens caused Scrooge to well up with joy unlike anything he had ever felt before.
Just like us, when we are forgiven by God.
Covered by Jesus, we are made new. Forgiven. Hopeful. Loved.
Bring your whole self to Jesus, this Christmas. Ask Him to show you any part you’ve neglected to give to Him.
Gather up your courage, give Him that ugly part, too, and welcome the healing He promises to bring.
Like Scrooge, you’ll be grateful all the way down to your toes.
For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6
Do you find it odd our entire world celebrates Jesus’ birth?
Our secular world who seeks to elevate themselves more often than not?
Sure, you could argue Jesus’ birth has morphed into Santa, presents, and reindeer.
But even Santa is based on Nicholas of Myra, a fourth century bishop who left gifts for poor children.
Maybe the world isn’t totally lost. Yet.
How can you help your friends and family see the baby Jesus instead this Christmas?
Through you. Your witness. Your focus.
Jesus is the reason for the season. Overused phrase, yes, but it’s so true.
When you think for just a moment how deeply God loves you…..
When you ponder why God sent Jesus to earth…..
When you stop and realize how desperately you need our Savior…
You’ll discover the true meaning of Christmas.
Jesus came to earth just for you.
God missed His relationship with you that much.
He missed you and desperately wants that relationship back.
He wants you to trust Him. To love Him. To realize how much you need Him.
Because His plans for you are so good. The very best.
And to communicate that love, God set Jesus’ birth in motion.
That’s how much He loves you. All of you.
Begin to replace the commercialism of Christmas with the celebration of Jesus.
God’s peace on earth will come to your corner.
Your “why” you celebrate will alter everything. Real peace and real joy for once.
Let’s replace all the trinkets nobody needs. The gifts people return. Events we feel compelled to attend.
Replace it all with an increased devotion to Jesus, thanking Him for His gift. Himself.
Rely on Him for your peace as you dwell on the love He has just for you.
Let your celebrations stem from this and all of the gifts, events, and chaos will become worship to God.
While the world has lost the focus of Christmas, let’s keep ours, shifting back our focus to God and His precious gift of Jesus for you and for me.
For in Him we live, and move, and have our being. Acts 17:28
Where are you gathering your identity?
Are you shopping at Walmart when you should be selecting items at the most expensive store?
You might reply you cannot possibly afford the most expensive store.
Remember, I’m not talking about material goods.
I’m talking about your worth. Your identity. Your very core.
When you surrender your life to God, He steps in, scooping out the ugly, replacing it with beauty.
Jesus’ death on the cross provides the transaction removing sin. The sin we were born with. The sin we chose. Our heredity. God’s power removes all of it, replacing it with redemption.
When redeemed, we have God’s power. His life. His disposition.
Acts reminds us we live and move and literally are within God.
Your identity is God’s.
Your worth is God’s.
When we live from within God’s power, we have everything.
When our being is literally from God, our worth is immeasurable.
It’s time to stop shopping for your worth at the thrift store.
Time to stop settling for your used former self.
Instead, select God’s exquisite self. His perfection wanting to shine through you.
Start living as if God is speaking through you.
Start living as if God is working through you.
Start living as if God is moving through you.
Because when you live and move and have your being in God, He’s already here.
He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear the Lord and put their trust in him. Psalm 40:3
God calls us into new beginnings, sometimes several times in our life.
It could be a HUGE new beginning.
Marriage, baby, divorce, death, moving, or a new job.
Or, it could be a small new beginning such as resolving to eat healthy, initiating a new devotional time, determining a new year’s resolution, or updating your children’s chore chart.
New beginnings can be scary, especially if they hit you by surprise.
An unexpected job loss.
A sudden death or divorce.
A child moving out.
It’s all scary and frightening.
But God is in the details.
What?
He cares about my daily struggles, my new beginnings, big or small?
Yes, He absolutely does.
Not only that, but He wants to hear your heart and help you.
He wants your trust – your unwavering trust in the Provider of Life.
But the Lord takes pleasure in those who fear him, in those who hope in his steadfast love. Psalm 147:11
Ever think of how God smiles down at you?
How He looks down at you, his beautiful creation, breaking out in a huge grin?
I did today.
I thought about how God had recently blessed me and I felt His smile.
Like He was saying, “This is all for you, because I’m so proud of you.”
We don’t obey God to get things.
We obey God out of our deep love for Him. Our allegiance. Our choice to surrender our will to His.
But God does choose to bless His children.
The Old Testament has many verses like Deuteronomy 5:33: Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess.
While I’m fully aware God is pleased when we are obedient and we can rest in His peace when we daily focus on Him, there are times when I think about God smiling down on us.
Maybe something big finally came together.
Maybe a bonus check arrived you weren’t expecting.
Maybe a long-lost friend reached out and made your day.
Maybe you were suddenly filled with a deep gratitude for all God has given you.
Or maybe you were surprised with something and you know God sees your faithfulness, recognizing it for more to witness.
I frankly think God smiles down on us more than we realize.
He loves you and longs for a deep relationship with you.
He’s not one to grab your time, exposing your flaws when you chat.
He wants to free you for you. For your freedom walking this earth.
God’s already free. He’s God.
But He longs for you to be free to see His smiles.
Surrender afresh today. Ask Him to be your Lord and Savior over everything.
Then pay attention. God’s smile will warm your heart when you finally take notice.
Do everything without complaining and arguing, so that no one can criticize you. Live clean, innocent lives as children of God, shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people. Philippians 2:14-15
What are God’s purposes for you on this earth? To glorify Him, and you cannot do that while complaining.
You’ll also live caught in the web of self-condemnation, probably in a bad mood most of the time when your speech is perverse.
Subsequently, your witness for God is tarnished.
Sends others off screaming in the other direction.
So how do we glorify God when we feel like complaining?
We praise him anyway.
We choose to push aside the complaining thoughts, praising God instead. Even if.
When we choose to continue trusting God as life tempts us to sour – that’s when our witness shines. That’s when God’s transformation of our very selves shines brighter.
It’s how the world sees the difference God makes in our lives.
So if we choose to complain every time things go south, we’re absolutely no different from the world.
They complain, too.
But if instead you choose praising God in the midst, choosing to trust him instead of your circumstances, you’ll show the world how good God is.
How trustworthy He remains. How much better off you are with Him by your side. How much you need Him as life often deals badly.
Your purpose on this earth is to glorify God, reflecting Him to others.
Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?”“No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven! Matthew 18:21-22
This is one of the greatest difficulties we face as Christians.
Forgiveness. Releasing the offender from you.
Freeing them from their offense.
Even when they don’t ask.
Especially when they don’t ask.
How many times?
Seventy times seven.
Four hundred ninety times. Unlimited.
What if the person has offended you that many times?
Then for you, it’s four hundred ninety. And counting.
Doesn’t mean you allow abuse to continue. Or offense to keep knocking you down again and again.
But normal daily interactions often yield conflict.
And aside from Jesus asking us to do this, we do have a choice.
We can forgive or not.
If we forgive, we release ourselves from bitterness. From the prison of unjustly behavior revenge.
Is it funner to stay in the prison, stuck and alone? I’ll be the first to admit yes.
It’s where we nurse our wounds unprovoked by others. It’s where we feel justified in making others pay for their deeds. Hard time is what we want.
But the prison of bitterness is also where we stay stuck. Miserable. And you know who is too pleased when we do? The enemy. The father of lies, who tells us our prison is better accommodations than freedom’s path.
The good news is this: God. Not only does God know forgiveness is superior for our relationships, and our physical or emotional health, He helps us through the process.
We don’t have to feel like forgiving. We simply need to choose and obey God.
Ask God to help you forgive the offender. Release them back into the arms of Jesus. Ask God to fill your sense of injustice with peace, replacing the bitterness with joy.
God has promised to right every wrong. He’s the ultimate judge and your defender.
Practice this today as God unlocks your prison of bitterness.
It’s incredibly difficult. But you must trust God more than you trust your bitterness.
We don’t want the enemy happy with our location, do we?
Change your address today. God’s waiting to walk you to freedom.
Oh, and if your well worn path takes your feet right back to the prison out of habit?
Stop and turn. God will help you every single time.
Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8
Let’s ponder war strategy for a moment. How do opposing sides attack each other?
Quietly. A sneak attack, surprising the enemy.
Plans are top secret. Spies infiltrate.
When the other side doesn’t expect you, it’s way easier to win.
D-Day even had rumors of other attacks, alternate landings, confusing the enemy.
Even though thousands of precious soldiers died that day, they won because the enemy was surprised.
If the Nazis had known, D-Day would have been a disaster. And our world today would likely look way different.
Shifting our attention to the enemy of our souls, it’s no different.
Do you honestly think the enemy will announce himself with large banners, shouting his presence to attack?
When someone is robbed at gun point, does the robber allow the victim to get ready to respond?
When an arsonist seeks to set fire to a property, do they call the owner, informing them of impending doom?
It’s absurd. Attacks are meant for harm. Understandable and necessary in war, but cruel in life.
We are living in a spiritual battle. And we must be ready. At all times, because the enemy will not announce himself.
He will come in quietly, swinging at your most vulnerable parts for fatal blows.
Be assured he watches you. Has known you for your whole life.
He knows your weaknesses. Where to strike you so it hurts real bad.
Are you prone to people pleasing? You’ll bend over backwards so others like you.
Rejection? His lies will confirm untruths still lying dormant in your brain.
Perfection? Same thing. You’ll feel less than every time.
Stand up. Take back your ground, given to you by God’s authority dwelling in you.
Romans 8:11 reminds us “if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you”.
God’s life in you. His power. His authority.
God is the victor. He has already won the war. And the enemy knows it.
He’s here to kill, steal, and destroy relationships, reputations, and lives. Yours, mine, and our family’s.
Don’t let him. Be ready. 1 Corinthians 16:13 says, “Be on guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong”.
God will stand with you, silencing the enemy’s accusations.
Dress for battle as Ephesians 6 describes.
Lift yourself and your family to God each day, asking for his protection, filling you with himself in your mind, body, soul, and spirit.
Don’t sit down in your soul anymore.
Stand and fight with God, whose power will slay the enemy to his knees.
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end;they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. Lamentations 3:22-23
Spent the past week at the beach.
Can I just live there, please?
Watching the waves is so peaceful.
The sound as waves crash onto the sand.
The smell of salty, fresh air.
The feel of fine sand cushioning your feet.
The notice of life brimming all around.
Mussels coming up after a wave recedes, burrowing down again.
Seashells littering the sand begging to be scooped up.
Seagulls daring to come close, curious for scraps.
Standing on the beach, the waves are mesmerizing.
Almost like clockwork, they keep rolling in.
Over and over. They never end.
It’s just like God’s love, which is never ending.
He continually gives you more and more.
It’s just like God’s peace, which is never ending.
He continually gives you more and more.
It’s just like God’s faithfulness, which is never ending.
He continually gives you more and more.
PIcture God’s gifts to you as unending as the ocean waves.
As abundant as the ocean waves.
As predictable as the ocean waves.
God’s mercies are new every morning. They’ll be here tomorrow, and the next day, and every day for the rest of your life.
You simply need to receive them like waves rolling over your toes.
The ocean waves aren’t going away.
God isn’t going away.
But you must choose to see. To want. To accept what God has for you.
God’s abundant mercies are waiting for you.
They are constantly rolling towards you on the sand. Will you choose to get wet?
Pictures by me, Amy Mecham, at South Padre Island, Tx
Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. John 14:27
A couple of nights ago, the following tragedy unfolded near San Antonio, Tx.
It’s my friend’s story. Her daughter-in-law’s, actually.
What if it was yours?
She was going to bed for the last time.
Waking in the night, they needed to escape.
Rising waters. Nighttime rescue.
Floating debris. Pitch black darkness.
Her husband holds onto a tree, trying to reach her.
He cannot and off she goes.
He hears her calling his name, but she is beyond reach.
She was swept off to heaven that night.
Not what she thought would transpire after saying goodnight.
A precious life lost. Her family left to grieve.
What about you? Would you have been ready to meet your Maker?
There’s often no time to ready your heart in the midst of a tragedy.
Unfortunately, tragedies do occur, often producing death.
And it can happen in an instant. The blink of an eye.
So, what if it was you? Are you ready?
We never know when God will call us home.
Ready your heart today. Now. Right this minute.
John 14:27 reminds us God give us His peace. His perfect peace.
God doesn’t want our hearts to be troubled, and death is nothing to fear.
Why? Because of Jesus. His great love for you. His precious plan for you.
But here’s the thing: Death is nothing to fear only if you place your hope in Jesus.
In the sacrifice of His life in exchange for yours.
Your sins are forgiven.
Your future is secure.
Only if you are His. Are you?
Nobody plans to say goodnight for the final time.
Make sure your heart is God’s when you say goodnight this evening.
Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered.Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows. Matthew 10:29-31
How dare we question God.
Yet we do.
Why? Because we want our own way.
We think we know better than Him.
Do you see how selfish that is?
How arrogant?
Did we create the earth and all it contains?
Did we place the stars in the heavens?
Did we design life with such variety and beauty?
Absolutely not.
We are God’s creation.
God is not our creation.
I get it though. Often our lives seem to turn unexpectedly, down a path we wished to avoid.
We question God. We question because we hate it. The direction we travel.
God allows things.
He created us with the ability to choose, and sometimes people make bad choices.
Or, sometimes it’s our own fault.
Yet God allows it.
We can be assured from Ecclesiastes 9:1 that “… how the righteous and the wise and their deeds are in the hand of God. Whether it is love or hate, man does not know; both are before him.”
All we do are in God’s hands.
We need God. He helps us filter out bad choices when we cannot see what’s right.
Further, we can rest assured God works all things for His purpose.
Romans 8:28 reminds us,” And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”
God sees everything.
He sees the good, the bad, and the ugly.
While He might allow circumstances you detest, He will stay by your side.
And He has a plan. Do you trust Him?
You are worth more to God than anything else He created.
He sent His only son to die on the cross for you so you can spend eternity with Him.
Yes, God is holy.
Yes, He created all things.
And no, we are not in charge.
But you can rest assured God is.
God, who created order and beauty, is on the throne.
And when trials come, He will be with you every step of the way.
His ways are higher than ours.
We must not question God, but live peacefully, knowing He cares for all of His creation.
Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God. Psalm 42:11
I fight discouragement.
Do you?
Same lies in my head.
Unanswered prayers.
Unchanged people.
Who are we to question Almighty God?
We are but a breath in all of God’s created beings.
God’s ways are higher than ours.
Then mine. Then yours.
He is above it all.
Even unanswered prayers.
Even unchanged people.
Even the lies still swirling in your head.
Our job is to submit ourselves to Him, asking Him to make us new.
Then pray for what God lays on our hearts.
After we pray, we are to give it all to God.
The unanswered prayers.
The unchanged people.
The lies in your head.
Now we sit and trust.
Yes, we can pray, of course, we should.
But as you pray, resist the urge to scoop the burden back up.
God’s got it.
He’s got it and all the rest. Why?
Because He knows all things and loves your loved ones even more than you, you must trust Him.
When they [the wisemen] had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up,” he said, “take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.” Matthew 2:13
God has plans and warns us in advance.
God’s warning might be a soft whisper, a quickening in your spirit, or a word from another.
Or, God might warn you in a dream, specifically outlining your next move and why.
That’s how God warned Joseph after the wisemen left their visit with Jesus.
God knew Herod’s plans and warned Joseph to escape.
And Joseph obeyed.
Reminds me of a dream I once had.
Living in a ground level apartment, our bedroom had a sliding door.
I had it open with the screen locked for a nice breeze.
Dreamt someone was in our home, stealing whatever they wished.
Woke me up. I stared at the gently blowing curtain.
Getting out of bed, I knew I should shut and lock the door.
Pulling aside the curtain, I saw a man. An intruder.
His hand was on the other side, trying to open it.
He ran away as I immediately slammed the door shut, locking it.
Collapsing on the bed with fright, I thanked God for warning me in my dream.
Can you imagine if he hadn’t? We had an infant in our room. A two-year old next door.
But all was well. God had perfectly protected us.
In life we will have trials due to the world in which we live.
But rest assured God has plans for you.
And if His plans for you need to be protected, He will warn you.
God’s plan could include heartache as you witness to the world God’s grace, mercy and love while enduring what he allows.
It could also include death as many martyrs can attest.
As Joseph trusted God to lead his family, we can trust God to lead us, too.
Lead us, God, into what You have for us.
Protect us from the schemes of the enemy as You foil his plans.
And deepen our trust in You as we fully submit to Your plans for us again and again.
Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. Isaiah 53:4-6
Words utterly fail.
It isn’t possible to find adequate words, expressing how grateful we are for your sacrifice, Jesus.
You came to us for this time. Good Friday and Easter.
Your entire life was lived for this purpose.
To suffer and die in our place.
To take our punishment onto your holy and sinless self.
Each drop of spit falling off your face was meant for us.
Each thorn thrust into your head was meant for us.
Each whip lash was meant to tear our flesh, not yours.
Each insulting word was meant to insult us, not you.
Each nail driven into your hands and feet was meant to pierce our flesh.
Not yours.
Not your holy feet who willingly walked this earth, sharing the love of the Father.
Not your holy hands who willingly healed the hurting people clamoring to you.
When you hung on the cross with the weight of our sin, God turned away.
He left you utterly alone.
That should have been us as we are the sinful ones, not you.
We are deserving of death, not you.
Yet you chose to die for us.
You willingly took our pain and suffering away, bearing it all on your own.
But that’s why your death won the victory. Why the devil has been defeated once and for all.
You were and are the spotless lamb.
The Prince of Peace.
The sinless sacrifice for us, Your children.
It’s why we are now set free forever and ever from sin, death, and the grave when we choose You.
When we choose You over ourselves.
When we acknowledge Your sacrifice, cleansing us from our sin.
Reflecting this Easter, it seems impossible.
You, a perfect sacrifice, choosing us over you.
Yet, You did just that. You cancelled our debt for all of eternity.
We are forever grateful.
We are forever yours.
We are forever and ever yours.
Fill us afresh with a new awe of Good Friday. Of your sacrifice.
May we live every day in the shadow of the cross.
And may we live with the hope of Easter, knowing You have indeed conquered it all.
Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken. Psalm 55:22
I love hymns. Do you? They speak such powerful truth in their short verses.
This Swedish hymn is a favorite of our family. I can still hear my grandmother singing it with us.
Children of the heavenly Father safely in his bosom gather;nestling bird nor star in heaven such a refuge e’er was given.
We, as God’s children, are safely settled into His giant arms.
Nothing on earth dares to compare to the safety we experience as His children when gathered up in His arms.
God his own shall tend and nourish; in his holy courts they flourish.From all evil powers he spares them; in his mighty arms he bears them.
God takes care of us, His own. We flourish and grow mightily in His presence.
He shields us from all evil. All evil. Even when surrounded by death and destruction, we are safe. His strong arms hold us. Yes, we may suffer, but God stands with us.
Neither life nor death shall ever from the Lord his children sever;for to them his grace revealing, he turns sorrow into healing.
Nothing in life or death will ever separate us from God. We will abide with Him now and forever.
His grace provides healing for our every sorrow.
God has given, he has taken, but his children ne’er forsaken;his the loving purpose solely to preserve them pure and holy.
God is in control. He gives and He takes away, but He will never leave us alone.
His ways are higher than ours and purpose to only keep us pure and holy.
When we trust God as our Father, He lovingly cares for us – His beloved children.
Forever and ever. Amen.
Hymn writer: Caroline W. Sandell Berg 1832-1903 (Swedish)
My son, give me your heart, And let your eyes observe my ways. Proverbs 23:26
What does it look like to obey God?
I mean to really obey what He asks of you?
Does it look like taking control of your fleshly desires?
Exchanging your hopes and dreams for God’s?
Asking Him for His thoughts for your future?
Doing the thing He nudges you to do?
Does your life look like that?
Does it reflect an obedience and surrender to God?
I’m guessing you have parts that do.
The squishy parts that feel good.
Obeying your boss when it feels right.
Giving to charity when you really do have plenty of extra.
Regularly attending a church where you feel continually affirmed.
Loving your child when they love you back.
But what about the ugly parts?
Loving the underserved in your family?
Giving to others out of your poverty?
Pushing aside instant entertainment to drink in the wisdom of God’s word?
Praying for your people even when you’re tired?
Doing the right thing when the rest of the world thinks differently?
Standing for God’s truth even if your loved ones turn away?
We all tend to choose obedience and surrender when we want to. The challenge remains to obey and surrender when we don’t feel like it. When it goes against our flesh.
Obedience to God might look a little different in my life than yours.
God asks things of us that are personal to the impact He has in store for us.
Me? God asked me to start writing down His words of wisdom more than a dozen years ago.
Starting this blog, I was nervous as it seemed I was sharing my bare naked heart.
But I obeyed.
And here we are. My 500th post.
From this blog my book was birthed, selling over 91,000 so far, not including the recent Spanish edition or audio book.
Just signed my contract for a second book – prayers to go with each devotion.
And they are also creating a journal to go with my book.
All because I obeyed. Even though starting the blog felt really weird.
Trust God and obey. Surrender to what He has for you.
It might be a little scary, but when God asks you to do it, He’ll give you all the strength, wisdom, and peace you need.
Can’t wait to hear what He does through your obedience and surrender to Him. 🙂
And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat……And they went away…..When he went ashore he saw a great crowd, and he had compassion on them… Mark 6:30-34
Jesus preached and worked all the live long day.
Every day, tirelessly, He fed His sheep.
But even Jesus wanted rest.
But when He tried, the crowds would run to find Him.
And He would begin again, feeding them. Healing them. Helping them.
As mamas, our children tend to find us, too.
We try to get away, but it’s never for more than a few minutes.
You hide in the bathroom.
Pretty soon, you hear the little feet outside your door. A timid knock. You reply, “Just a minute!”
You lay your tired head down to sleep, and your baby awakens, demanding attention.
You try sleeping in past the ungodly hour of 6am, but the dog comes in with a note on its back, asking for pancakes. Pancakes?
When babies are little, you carry them everywhere with you.
Bedtime? They are next to you in a cradle.
Want a shower? You bring them to the floor in a bouncy seat.
Just starting to walk? They are always within view.
Going anywhere? Guess who is coming with you!
Yes, we have moments where they nap.
Yes, we have moments when they’re occupied and you can catch your breath.
But the constant parenting is never ending, even when they’re older.
I’m convinced tired mamas are under God’s wings.
He knows dog tired as He was so many times while walking this earth.
Humans are exhausting.
But here’s the good news: God is never exhausted.
He has unlimited strength to give you.
Jesus experienced human tiredness as He was fully human, yet fully God.
And He remembers.
Ask Him to fill you with His strength. His peace. His joy.
And smile, because He understands tired.
He gets it!
So if you’re in the season of tired mama stuff, take heart.
God understands. And I promise it will end, but not soon enough, I know.
And if you’re plain tired from reasons other than helping tiny humans survive, God’s ready to fill you up with His strength, too.
Because when we are weak, He is strong. So very strong.
I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love, because you have seen my affliction; you have known the distress of my soul, and you have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; you have set my feet in a broad place. Psalm 31:7-8
Isn’t God good? He sees our affliction. He knows our distress, yet He keeps us safe and sound.
Not only does He keep us safe, He sets us in a strong place.
Psalm 31 begins by David declaring refuge in God.
Putting his trust in God, and asking God to rescue him.
David declares “You are my rock and my fortress”, meaning God is his anchor and protection.
He reminds God “You take me out of the net…for You are my refuge”.
God has continually rescued David, like God has continually rescued you.
God has seen all of it. All of your life, God has seen.
Every moment of every day.
He has seen your deep distress wrapping your mind.
He has seen this, that, and every little bit.
But even while afflicted, David was not handed over to the enemy. God did not allow it.
And while you’ve been afflicted, God has not allowed you to be given over to the devil.
What do I mean?
While in deep dispair, are you still alive?
While struggling with the persecution of others, is your soul still rejoicing in the Lord?
While surrounded with impossible situations, are you still placing your hope and trust in God Almighty?
God has protected your soul from leaving the safety of His refuge.
God has kept you with Him, not allowing the devil to take all of you.
It might seem like the devil has had his way, but it could always be worse.
God could abandon you, and He has not.
He will not.
Instead of allowing the devil to take you away, God has set your feet in a broad place.
Meaning, you are safe.
Yes, keep asking God to rescue you.
Yes, keep begging God to redeem your situation.
But in the midst, thank God for His rock of refuge.
Thank God for seeing your affliction and the distress of your soul.
Thank Him for standing with you in his strong fortress.
Paul reminds us we are more than conquerers in Romans 8:37.
Are you?
You are if you keep yourself hidden in God as He works everything out.
We are more than conquerers through Him in all things, not in spite of them, but in the midst of them. (Oswald Chambers).
Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my strength and my Redeemer. Psalm 19:14
When someone talks down to you, how does that make you feel?
How about if you become the fall out and it wasn’t even your fault?
When you’re surprised at someone’s reaction as they share none of the blame?
When you don’t feel heard, and you realize your voice is barely above a whisper?
How does it make you feel when the conversation leaves you smaller than you were. Tiny, in fact. So tiny, you feel like a bug that was just squashed completely flat?
I know how you feel. Because I felt that recently.
Had a hard conversation, and let’s just say they were only interested in one thing.
Their opinion.
Their right to state their opinion.
Their right to state their opinion in a way that left me squashed.
Interestingly enough, I’ve been taking an education leadership class.
Well, three actually, but who’s counting!
Anyhow, because I am taking these classes at a Christian university, there is always a filter of God through each concept.
How would this response or that decision reflect God and how He operates?
Brings me to that hard conversation.
The conversation directed towards me was missing understanding, grace, and a humble spirit.
Left me thinking thoughts I will not admit, but God has allowed me to see the point beyond the conversation.
God allows yuck to happen, and when it comes, we should ask ourselves what must He be teaching us?
I’ll tell you what I learned.
How not to treat other people.
How not to respond to filth.
How not to bring another person down as I lift up my own self.
Because I know how that felt – terrible.
And I never want to make someone else feel that way. Ever.
When having tough conversations, make sure you are tuned into God’s mind. God’s ways. God’s voice.
Yes, sometimes we might have to deliver unwanted messages, but we can season our talk with understanding, empathy, and love.
And when the other person feels heard, our message will be received, leaving the other with their dignity intact.
Ask God to keep filling you up with Himself.
His words of life.
As we are responsible for the words of our mouths, “may the words of our mouths and the meditation of our hearts be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, our STRENGTH and our REDEEMER” (from Psalm 19:14).
And then when we talk with the world, our words will leave a lovely taste of God as we represent Him with all we do and say.
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