Is This It?

Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. Colossians 3:2

Ever wonder, “Is this it?”

You wait your whole life to grow up. To finally be on your own.

Time passes and life doesn’t turn out how you dreamed.

Haven’t met “the one” yet.

Yes, you love your job, but even that begins to get old. Redundant.

After all, it’s almost every day.

You enjoy the freedom to buy what you want within the confines of your budget.

But after a while, even that novelty begins to wear thin.

You search for a new hobby, landing on something great.

Lasts a bit, you meet some new friends, but again, after time, it gets old, too.

So you ask yourself again, “Is this it?”

Fast forward and you’re approaching your fifteenth wedding anniversary.

Yes, it’s been wonderful. The love of your life lives with you!

And the children are simply perfection. Except when they act soley within their flesh, which happens too many times in your opinion.

The monotony of this stage becomes routine and you ask yourself, “Is this it?”

Each stage of life brings this question. We think of the next part romantically, as if boredom or loneliness will not be our friend.

Yes. That’s the answer to your question. Yes, this is all this life has to offer you.

But the biggest piece of your life, making the most difference, is Jesus.

When Jesus isn’t the center of your world, life simply crawls by in dull excitement at best.

But Jesus fills the void our bodies were created with. A void that can only filled by God Himself.

Ask God to fill you. Ask God to walk alongside you each and every day.

As He dwells within you, humbly submit to His ways as He guides your every step.

Each day can become pregnant with fabulous possibilities as you focus not on yourself, but on Him and Him alone.

Instead of asking, is this it, you will be declaring, this is it!

Return your focus back to God. After all, life really is all about glorifying Him.

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Point of Life

Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. Colossians 3:2

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So, what is the point of life?

Why are we here?

What is our purpose?

I’m asking because I’d really like to know.

Do you ever feel as if it just doesn’t matter one bit what we do?

We can pour years into a marriage and they can up and leave or pass away.

We can pour our very life into our children and they can grow up and walk away- from you and every value you placed into their heart.

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I’m wondering about material things too.

Yes, I love a nice place just like you…

But it’s all completely temporary.

I think back to my size 4 self who thought it wasn’t enough.

5 pregnancies later and my mom body will never recover.

I can work hard for yet another masters, because I love education.

But I can’t take that with me either.

My only thought about this age old question of ¨what really does matter¨ is this:

It’s not about us.

Our desires.

If you look at my list up there, you’ll see it all points to me.

When we focus on ourselves, when we put all of our life eggs into the one basket of self, we will be disappointed when our basket of eggs is broken.

Or if our basket looks broken, yet is not, because it doesn’t meet our standards.

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So why did God even create us?

For love.

For Him.

If we focus on God and what He wants us to do, we will be content.

From the balcony of heaven, will it matter the color of my dining room?

Will it matter if I drive the car of my choice?

No.

How can God use us for His purposes so we can be content?

To give hope to others.

To heap love, too.

We live in a broken world.

But God’s redeeming love surpasses all else.

His never ending mercy and undeserved grace creates security.

Safety.

When people have no hope, they don’t feel safe.

When people don’t have love, they have fear instead.

And they’re not content.

So, what is the point of life?

To generously love others through the power of God.

If we can minister God’s love to others, we will be content.

Ask God who you can bless.

Ask God to be His vessel through which His love can pour out onto His children.

Because the one thing you can take with you to heaven is a friend.

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