Opinions That Matter

For He strengthens the bars of your gates; He blesses your children within you. He makes peace in your borders. Psalm 147:13-14

There is no way every one will like you.

All of the time.

People won’t always agree with you.

They won’t always like you.

I happen to abhor when people dislike me.

Personality flaw, I know.

Why do we tend to care what others think of us?

Why do we desperately crave their approval?

Because we were created for love.

God’s love.

And because we live in a broken world, God is separated from us.

Newsflash: we no longer abide with God in the Garden of Eden.

Shocking, I know.

But that’s how we were created.

God created us for relationship with Him, fully loved and valued by HIm.

Yes, God created us to make our own choices, but He also wanted friendship with us.

Friendship with us!

Living in our broken world, it’s so easy to forget the reason for our existence.

As Christians, we must choose to savor God’s opinion of us over the fleeting opinions of others.

And God loves you.

Wholly.

Completely.

Securely.

There’s not anything you can do to earn God’s endless love for you.

Nothing you can do to avoid it, either.

It’s constantly around you.

Not judging you, just complete acceptance.

Doesn’t God’s opinion of you sound a whole lot better then others?

Ask God to revel Himself to you in a new way.

Ask Him to show you how much you mean to Him.

Place your trust in Him, while removing your trust in others.

Remember His faithfulness to you.

Stand tall, straighten your crown, and believe God absolutely cherishes you.

And that’s all that matters.

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Inferiority

Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you. Isaiah 60:1

When you feel inferior from the words of another, that’s all you.

Only you can allow those words to turn into feelings of inferiority, confirming the lies previously placed from a different time.

If instead, words are said and you shrug them off, inferiority is not bred.

Doesn’t take root, growing into believing you are not valued.

Measure words from others against God’s truth.

Against what you know to be the absolute truth.

Seeking approval of others gets in the way.

Succumbing to the training you’ve had for your entire life is natural.

It takes work not to go there, giving validity to needing approval to feel worthy.

Takes purpose to change your thinking.

There’s no reason to feel inferior to anyone else.

When you match your royal status as God’s chosen, absolutely nothing compares.

Decide today to remain His in your body, mind and spirit.

Remain His as you refuse to feel inferior.

Stand back up and straighten your crown.

After all, it looks better that way.

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